By now, I’m sure we have all heard the saying, there is a special place in HELL for people like….fill in the blank. Well, for a Muvahhhhhh…an actual MUVAH to go on
Beyonce’s internet and tell THE entire World Wide Web that she wants to; as she so eloquently put it, “Marvin Gaye” her own child is a new level of diabolical! I am quoting the now infamous Tokyo Toni, mother to one Black Chyna aka Angela White, and when I say the girlies are understandably SHOOKETH, that is an understatement.
As if that was not appalling enough, Toni followed that sentiment with her desire to then watch her own daughter “bleed out,” then she said she would calmly call the police, and say, and I quote her yet again…”to come and get this devil off my floor” Gagged!
Here is the thing. This blog post is not about this woman’s vile and abhorrent behavior. Spending time on a person who is clearly not mentally well and refuses to be
accountable for her disturbing behavior and rhetoric towards her own daughter FOR YEARS is not worth discussing because at this point her sickness (either substance or mental or both) is not up for debate.
A much better use of our time will be spent on the three people that are most affected by her. Angela, her daughter Dream and her son King Cairo do not deserve to have this undiagnosed behavior imposed onto them by the one person that is supposed to protect
them and provide unconditional love. How do you explain to your children that not only is their grandma so sick that she has made death threats about their mom, but that she also thought it was cute to let the whole world watch her crash out in real time doing it?!??
After researching this subject matter, I learned that emotional abuse and neglect are more strongly associated with mental health problems than other types of maltreatment— including physical abuse, sexual abuse, and emotional neglect. The leading
explanation is that parental criticism becomes internalized, directly leading to negative self-views and deep psychological distress. Based on this, is there any wonder that
Angela (by her own admission) was a practicing alcoholic and hard drug user for years? According to the World Health Organization, the toxic stress caused by child abuse can disrupt healthy development and increase the risk of lasting mental, physical, and behavioral problems. This same study asserts that there is robust evidence ofsignificant associations between childhood emotional maltreatment and increased likelihood of a range of mental disorders, suicide attempts, and drug use.
